My name is Tom, and I am a fifty-eight-year-old retired police officer. For three decades, my body ran on adrenaline, shift work, and the chronic, low-grade stress that comes with the badge. When I finally retired a few years ago,…
My name is Brian, and I am a forty-seven-year-old senior software engineer. My entire professional life is spent sitting in an ergonomic chair, staring at lines of code for ten to twelve hours a day. While it’s lucrative work, the…
My name is Arthur, and I am a fifty-four-year-old high school vice principal. My entire professional life is governed by a rigid bell schedule. Between disciplinary hearings, budget meetings, and monitoring the crowded hallways, I simply don’t have the luxury…
For three years I pretended the bathroom trips were normal. I told myself that waking up two or three times a night was just part of being 54. I told myself the weak stream was nothing serious, that the constant…
I approached my testosterone decline the way I approach most things in my professional life: with research, skepticism, and a determination not to commit to anything without understanding the evidence. I am 52 years old, a litigation attorney for 24…
There are conversations that men of a certain age have with themselves that they are not having with anyone else. I am 54 years old, a vice principal at a suburban high school, the father of two adult children, and…
For a long time, I avoided talking openly about my prostate symptoms. Like many men over 50 who experience the gradual erosion of bladder control that accompanies prostate changes, I had quietly normalized the three to four nighttime bathroom trips,…
For a long time, I avoided talking openly about my prostate symptoms. Like many men over 50 who find their sleep progressively sabotaged by the relentless drumbeat of nighttime bathroom trips, I had quietly normalized the three-to-four nightly interruptions, the…
For a long time, I avoided talking openly about my prostate struggles. Like many men in their early fifties navigating the gradual erosion of urinary function that accompanies aging, I had quietly accepted the two-to-three nightly bathroom interruptions, the weak…
My name is Daniel. I am forty-seven years old, a senior software engineer at a mid-size SaaS company, and the father of two kids who deserve a version of me that has more than a fraction of his energy available…